Know the Warning Signs: When a Loved One Needs Help

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As a friend or family member, it is important to recognize when a loved one might need extra help. If you see changes in their behavior or routine, or things just don't seem right, follow your instincts and look for these warning signs:

• Poor grooming, such as stains on clothes and infrequent bathing.
• Sudden mood changes or easily becoming angry, suspicious or paranoid.
• Reluctant or resistant to spending time with others.
• Prolonged sadness.
• Poor or decreased judgment, such as stove burners left on or doors unlocked.
• Mishandling finances or not paying bills.
• Not taking medication or using an incorrect dose.
• Loss of initiative or lack of interest in normal activities.
• Increased forgetfulness or confusion, such as missed doctor appointments or skipping family events.
• Changes in eating habits and less interest in nutritious meals.
• Difficulty walking, unsteadiness or frequent falls.