Early cancer detection gives Mary more time with her grandson

For Mary, life is full of the things she loves most: spending time with her family, and doing just about anything with her grandson, Colton. Whether they’re painting, riding bikes, tossing a football, playing badminton or shopping, Mary treasures every moment they share.

Those moments carry even more meaning today because 10 years ago, Mary faced a diagnosis that changed her life.

It started with something she almost didn’t mention to her primary care provider (PCP). But when she did, her PCP decided to refer her for additional care. That decision likely saved Mary’s life, because a colonoscopy revealed she had stage 3B colorectal cancer. Within weeks, she underwent surgery, followed by 12 rounds of chemotherapy. Later, when the cancer returned in her liver, she faced another surgery.

With her UnitedHealthcare benefits, Mary felt completely supported. “UnitedHealthcare’s fast approval for all the tests I needed was amazing, and I had no delays in having my treatments or surgery,” she said, adding that UHC also called to check on her mental health. “I was able to see a mental health provider, who helped me with some of the issues and anxiety I had.” Mary believes emotional well-being is an important part of recovering from cancer, and she encourages others to seek support when they need it.

Through it all, Mary found strength in the people she loves most: her family. "My family was there for me 24/7," Mary said. "My husband, my daughter and my mother. It’s amazing how much having the support of your family can motivate you and keep you from drifting into the deep, dark waters of what cancer can be."

But it was Colton, her grandson, who became Mary's “Why?”

“My whole goal was to watch my grandson grow up,” Mary said. Having him nearby during her recovery gave Mary something to focus on beyond her illness. Whenever she was feeling up to it, they went shopping, explored parks, did crafts and made memories of all kinds.

Today, Mary is a 10-year colorectal cancer survivor. She is a strong advocate for colonoscopy screenings, and she participates in events that raise awareness about colorectal cancer screening. Most importantly, she encourages others not to ignore symptoms or delay conversations with their health care providers. “People don’t want to talk about colon cancer, but that’s the problem,” Mary said. “Don’t be afraid to go to the doctor. Don’t be afraid to get that colonoscopy.”